The suction cup base also lets you explore pegging with your

16 best dildos for penetrative play in 2025, according to experts

This is the type to go for if you’re looking for an ultra-smooth or non-realistic texture (ribbed, beaded, etc). For anal use I’d shoot for 3 to 5 inches in length with a maximum girth of 1.5 (although I’d suggest closer to 1 inch in most cases!). If you are looking for your very first insertable toy, and don’t have much experience with penetrative sex or masturbation, you’ll definitely want to start out small. It’s a great dildo for beginners because of the slim shape and diameter of 1.5 at the widest point. It’s also super flexible which makes it seem a lot less intimidating to complete beginners.

Your answers to these questions, she explains Inflatable Dildos, will help guide you towards a dildo that best meets your needs. After all, if you plan to use the dildo anally, you’ll want something with a flared base or a very long handle which keeps the toy from getting lost inside the body. Meanwhile, if you want to use it on your own in a hands-free way, you’ll want a suction cup. No doubt, stainless steel and glass dildos are great for people who like the sensation of internal fullness or intense pressure.

“There are dildos that are designed to be anatomically representative,” notes Finn, which can be attractive to some. And for some people , wearing a realistic-looking dildo in a harness can also feel gender-affirming, they add. Here at The Dildo Hub, we believe in harnessing your wildest desires with a sturdy companion. Our selection of phallic friends is designed for any and all sexual experiences – from vaginal penetration to anal play!

Besides the squirting action, the Big Shot has a realistic design with bulged veins on the shaft, a lifelike head, and a pronounced coronal ridge. It also has a pair of balls to add to an impressive cock design. While it can’t match the previous models, the realism tops all the squirting models we tested. The suction cup base also lets you explore pegging with your partner if you have a 2″ diameter O-ring harness (circled below). While the size might not be beginner-friendly, intermediary and experienced folks will appreciate the versatility. VixSkin Johnny gave us the most value for our money on this list.

Here’s a silly, confetti-speckled mini dildo that’s well-suited for first-timers with its shorter insertable length of 5.5 inches (though there is a full-size version). The dildo is realistically shaped with a suction cup at the base that makes it easy to stay put on flat surfaces (like in the shower). Another safe and satisfying way to dip your, er, toe in the anal sex pool? Butt plugs come in a range of sizes, textures, and materials.

If you’ve never discussed adding adult sex toys, you might want to take it slow and talk about what interests you both. Introducing a double-ended dildo or a butt plug to your foreplay might be a stretch too far, at first. High-quality dildos should have all safety features in check. Make sure that the dildo is made of a non-porous material (silicone, glass, or metal).

Icicles is a collection of budget borosilicate (not annealed) glass dildos and butt plugs from Pipedreams. The prices range from $30 – $50, and there’s over 20 wand and dildo shapes to choose from, including a fairly realistic glass dildo, and all kinds of twisted and beaded wands. Mr Hankey has over 30 realistic shapes to choose from, and most dildos are available in 3 or even 4 sizes to fit your experience level.

Most striking, the tapered head has a gentle incline that gradually widens around the coronal ridge, providing an outstanding balance between ease of use and realism. I’m used to realistic silicone sex toys, but the metal dong felt more special. The team also appreciated how intricate the skin texture and veins felt. More importantly, the tapered head and ultra-smooth silicone couldn’t be more resourceful – it significantly enhances the user experience for fans of a massive dildo.